Men - Your Secrets Are Out

I have been following this question since a long, long, long time, and I really wanted to answer it, even though a woman's perspective is almost useless here, but even then I would love to answer based on my observations :

• Guys like sex much more they tell or care to admit, especially in front of girls. But they hell do. Males are biologically programmed to look for sex for procreation process. Not their fault, till the point they learn to control it.
• Even when they're with their girlfriend/wife, they will secretly check out other women, and it means nothing. Women do it too. Checking out other people is normal. If you're mature, you can even check out people together, and laugh about it.
• Guys call everyone as 'Bhai' or 'Bro'. Even if they are not friends, even random guys become 'Bhai' for them. And their bestest guy friend, he is very IMPORTANT. Don't try to separate them. Let the boys have their brotherhood.
• Guys love eating. And a lot of eating. They all do. Apart from sex, it's probably the only thing they all like and we can generalize it. Also not their fault, biology. Bigger bodies, bigger diets.
• Guys lie. They do. Especially to their girlfriend/wives. Now the thing is, why they lie. They lie because they think :

1. Their girlfriend/wife cannot figure it out and they can get away with it. LOL. (Women are intelligent).
2. They lie because they think their girlfriend/wife will not understand their truth.

So ladies, if you want your man to be honest, be mature. If he wants to spend sometime with his guy friend, don't fight with him all the time because you don't like his friend. You cannot control his life, for good or bad. He is intelligent, he will figure out what is good or bad for him.

• His girl may be the woman he loves with every core of his heart, but his mother is the woman he worships. There is no comparison, and rightfully so. Mother is incomparable. You don't have to take the place of his mother, but you surely can make your place in his life and heart. Become irreplaceable for him.
• Many guys love to experiment in cooking, however they usually don't tell as they're afraid that people will judge them.
• Guys do have WhatsApp groups solely for porn. They might hide/not admit, but they have. They love it, don't let them fool you.
• They're hell possessive. Once they truly fall in love with a girl, she's his. PERIOD. Any other guy she talks to, he has nightmares about it. Fun fact : Males of most species are possessive about their female partner, nothing new.
• Their heart is really mushy. They're very soft on the inside. Softer than women, because they bottle up everything inside. No one really listens to them. But they do want someone to really listen without judging.
• They love it when you wear sarees/ cook for them. They love anything in which they can see a reflection of their mother in you. Guys are said to be attracted to women who resemble their mother a lot. (Not physically, characteristically).
• If they're in a bad mood, don't talk to them until they talk to you, or check upon them after some hours. However don't just make a scene about it and storm off. Leave them alone for sometime, but don't leave them. Guys are scared of their woman leaving. They will behave macho, but they want you to understand by yourself.
• If he truly loves you, you have all the power to either make him or break him. He won't tell you that he NEEDS you, but even he knows a man needs a woman, and likewise he needs you in his life. You complete him. And he won't ever say it in words. Maybe like once in ten years or so :P
• If he's crying for you, you have no idea how much he loves you. He cries, and you should let him cry without any judgement.
• If he loves you, he's thinking about a future with you, and he won't directly tell it, but he will give it away in small details. Is he talking about celebrating your birthday next year in your favorite restaurant? Yeah you now know what he means.
• He cyber stalks you.
• He has already planned names of his future kids with you, and sees you as his wife already.
• He talks about you with his friends, both in good and bad times. His friends are the ones who hold him together when you're not around.
• You can be his everything, but you're not his priority all the time. But if he loves you, you're very high on his priority list. But he won't tell you this, he will show you.
• If a guy is sharing stuff with you, he feels emotional security with you. And emotional security is as important to men as sexual security is to women. So if he does this, he considers you very very trustworthy. Don't break his trust.
• His biggest fear is that you will cheat on him with some other guy. Never break his trust, he won't ever be repaired fully.
• He hates your guy friends. All of them. No exception. Because he is a man and he knows how guys are (well, girls know guys better in this area :P). But he still does it from his possessive and protective instinct. He sees other men as a potential threat to his “empire" . If he does this, either you're precious to him and he wants to keep you safe, else he just looks at you as his property. Being his precious princess is okay, but being his property is not.
• He will spend more than he can afford on you and dates and gifts. But he will never tell you. You should here calculate how much you should let him spend on you, and you should also offer to spend on him directly or indirectly to balance it all. He won't tell you, but he's seeing everything.
• He notices every single thing about you every single time he sees you, and maybe he may just walk about casually, in his heart, he's always a happy man whenever he's with you, thinking “God I love her. Don't take her away from me ever.” You're beautiful to him, no matter how you look.
• He may not call you by mushy names like you do, but he sure as hell has kept some weird and funny and other names of you in his mind, which he will seldom disclose.
• Not all guys loves sports, but they don't admit it too because again, “men are supposed to like sports”.
• They may take up only a job they hate and work in it for years without any satisfaction for his family and you, however he won't say it because he knows his duties. He may be broken from inside but he will make sure his family has comforts. He doesn't know to show his emotions, you need to understand them yourself.
• He does a lot of little things, and hopes you notice them all without saying.
• When he says he couldn't call/text you because he was “busy”, mostly chances are there he wasn't. He was just sleeping/eating/watching senseless videos/out with his guys/or was just in a mood to not talk to you. Maybe he was even mad at you :P.
• He secretly loves your pampering.
• He respects you and get all the equality thing and truly believes you're equal and amazing, but in certain things, he wishes that you will let him take the lead because he's a guy, it makes him feel like a man. But he won't ever say because he fears being called a chauvinist , he only wishes you understand by yourself.
• You may call your male friends as “bhai”, but he won't ever call his female friends as “behen”. Ain’t happening. Guys may love you truly from every core of their body, but they won't call any other girl as “behen”. They want a “behen” proof world.
• They may have little crushes now and then which would last exactly for 1–2 days, which is boyish and funny. They can or cannot tell you, but it's nothing to be bothered about until he chases his temporary desires. We all develop crushes every now and then, the point is we should just let our crushes be and move forward with our real partner.
• That story he told you about a girl flirting with him? That was only his attempt to make you jealous. He knows how much attention you get and how much jealous he feels and scared to lose you, and he only wants you, for once, to feel scared of losing him too.
• He doesn't want you to think of him as a pervert, but he does have naughty thoughts about you. Again he may or may not tell you according your closeness.
• He wants you to believe in him. He doesn't tell you, but what you think about him, makes a lot of difference to him.
• He may do something that you like to make you happy, but he wishes that his life is not dictated by someone else.
• He likes your natural look the most, and not that make up cladded face. He likes your imperfections and flaws if he really loves you. But he may not say it on your face because he doesn't want to annoy you.
• No matter how much “playboys” they behave, there is only one woman who has all the power on him. And for her, he can literally go through anything.
• His actions, more or less, are a reflection of your own actions. He wants you to know that.
• They don't wash hands every time they pee.

These are only my observations, may or may not be correct. Do let me know