Vidushi Gupta : The SoulHome

‘ If your woman fights with you, there is hope. It is when the woman becomes silent, you have truly lost her.’ Keeping everything aside, the biggest sign that a woman neither loves nor wants to be with a man any longer is when she stops fighting, cribbing, complaining, nagging, perfecting, correcting him. The things in women which most husbands/boyfriends hate; the nature of constantly speaking, men don't realize women do not ‘nag' and ‘fight' with any random man walking down the street, sticking on the face of any man out there, constantly asking to help her do the dishes or pay the bills. Women crib only in front of men they genuinely love and sincerely want a future with. Why will I ask my neighbor ten times a day to not drink alcohol or to be safe on roads? Why will I ask that classmate of mine thrice a day whether or not he had had his food? Why will I ask that Instagram model if he is okay in life? Why will I assure the Quora guy that I believe in him and he has my

Dear fellow ‘feminist' women, I am a woman too. I am a feminist too. I advocate for the equality of choices and opportunities too. I am a writer, an author and there are a lot of aspects to my professional life. But . At the same time, I also want to get married. I want to have kids. I would like to have a family where both mine and his family would be around us. And that does not make me slave. Marriage and motherhood, taking care of families by default is not slavery or torture. My feminism is not  anti-marriage or anti-children . My feminism is about respecting choices of different humans. If a woman wants to get married at 25, let her be. She chose it. She might be happy in doing so. If a woman wants to be pregnant and go through nine hard months to birth her child, let her be. She chose it. She might be happy in doing so. If a woman wants to be a good housemaker and look after her family instead of going to work, let her be. She chose it. She might be happy in doing so