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What Is Social Media Detox And How To Implement It? Social Media is a magical place, and believe me, I really mean it, and if you're anything like me, I am sure you'll agree. Social Media is like the whole world packed in a six-inch screen. Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, Quora, WhatsApp, YouTube, Blogs, and so many more applications that keep us connected. You and I are also connecting through a social platform. Social media has lessened global boundaries and has opened up a world full of possibilities. I write a blog in an Indian city, and it gets read in America and Europe and Russia. My readers are scattered everywhere across the world and it takes me and them just a few seconds to get connected.  Not just professional life, social media has changed the dynamics of personal relationships too. Now one doesn't need to wait for days to send or get a letter from their loved ones, thanks to instant texting. Missing someone special? Say hello to the video calling ap

Five Ways To Become A Better Writer Hello Writers. Writing is just like love. Its complex, it's beautiful, it's liberating, and it makes you feel relaxed. All in all, writing is an artistic version of love. It is something that can make you travel in parallel beautiful worlds. However, again, just like love, writing needs polishing too. A writer might have been born with the talent of writin g , but the skills in writing should be updated and bettered constantly. I hope this article will give you some insights into how to be a better writer so that you can have a  blissful writing experience.    1. Read, Read, Read "Readers make better writers." And no, I am not saying that; it is an advice that has been passed on between writers for centuries. Reading a lot of books gives you great imagination and creativity, teaches you new words, gives you an insight about sentence formation, character development, and many other things. In short, reading does en

How To Win Your Ex Back In the last article, we discussed how to move on from a breakup using ten ways. But what if the person you broke up with was really the right one for you? What if the relationship was ruined because of petty mistakes or negligence or immaturity? Is a good relationship worth throwing away just because it met a rough patch? I don't think so. Until and unless you or your ex has a very bad experience in the relationship or it was an abusive relationship, I don't see a problem why a person cannot try to win their ex back if they really want that person back. So in this article, we will discuss five ways we can rekindle our love and relationship with that ex - girlfriend/boyfriend who just slipped away, hover before proceeding to the rules, I will urge you to really think with a calm and a cool mind do you really want your ex back? Was the relationship worth giving a chance again? If yes, read on: No Contact Rule :  In the world of dating, relationsh

We have all experienced heartbreak at one point in our life. Yes, it is hard, very hard indeed. When a relationship breaks, many other things die with it too. Commitment, the security towards the future, the memories, the shared times, the trust, the investment, the emotions, everything after a breakup just boils down to nil and many people find it really hard to move on.  So what should one do after he/she finds the relationship they've been relying on all along with crumbles down? Well here are ten ways that will surely help you move on. Cry: Although I am very sure that is anyway the number one thing almost all people are doing after their break up, but still, there are few people, especially men, who find it really hard to shed tears for the fallen love. They bottle up their feelings inside and pretend that they're fine, which in the long run harm their emotional health. So if you're someone who feels shame in crying, please don't. Play some break up sad

Best Relationship Advises In 2020 The world is changing. You and I are no longer living in the good old eighties or nineties, where romance was simple, where relationships and marriages really lasted a lifetime. Fortunately or unfortunately, the dating game today has changed drastically. What worked for the last generation, no longer works for us. So what are the secrets to a long-lasting relationship that will fill your life with happiness and completeness? Well here is a short list of how you can make your relation a huge success.  Change Your Perspective - Many 'millennials' I interact with believe in the concept of hit and trial. For some, it may work, but for most, it doesn't. They have a vast pool for dating, and it can be both, a blessing and a curse. Many youngsters get into a relationship , not with the idea of 'forever', but with the idea of 'let's see where it goes and if we can find someone better.', and this is the perspe

COVID 19 Campaign- India Against Corona Virus By Lighting Lamps, Candles And Torches On 5th April 2020 Ever since I was a child, I was really weak in mathematics. No, weak is not the correct word, the poor would be more appropriate. I sucked at it, to be honest. When I was in the tenth standard, and it was my mathematics board examination, I was in a really bad state. On the same morning, maybe out of stress, I got a fever. The pressure of the examination of a subject which was like a monster to me plus the pains and discomforts of a physical illness. Well, a fifteen-year-old child can only manage a limited pressure. As a result, I fainted with a loud thud. My parents came running in my room and picked me up, and then I told them all the things while crying and sobbing. Four hours later it was my exam, and there I was, crying on my bed surrounded by my parents. My mother, just like any Indian mother, cannot see her child in pain, crying lost and defeated. She gave

“Its been a year since our break up. He and I were together for two long years. He was an Engineer in an MNC, and I was working as a government doctor in the city hospital during those days. We met at a wedding. The bride was his cousin, the groom was my school friend. The little flirting soon turned into a drunk makeout and the sensual spark soon led to a full-fledged relationship, which, unfortunately, after a couple of years, we had to call quits. Why you might ask. Was it because we weren't compatible or is it because one of us was cheating on the other? Was it because we were bored of the monotony, or did the relationship simply met its natural end? Was it because our families were against love marriages, or was it because we just did not have the patience to understand love? Well, neither I nor he knows for sure what the exact reason was. The reason might be was a mixture of all of them, or not. It wasn't like we decided the expiry date, we simply 'fell out of l

‘I lay in my bed lifelessly. I haven't left it for three days. I haven't showered, hell I haven't shaved for two weeks. She liked my stubble look, and now whenever I look into the mirror, I wonder if she would have found this look as attractive. I pick up my phone and take a selfie, contemplate if I should send it to her like before and ask her what she thinks. But I don't. I keep the phone back. I get up slowly from the bed to use the restroom, and then stuff my mouth with few pieces of bread. Enough to keep me alive. I have lost some weight because of my lack of eating, especially for two weeks, when I left my job after serving my two months resignation period. Two weeks and I haven't left my rented room. I haven't told anyone back at home that I am jobless and depressed. We broke up two months ago. I won't go into the reasons. But after that, my life had turned upside down. I have no sense of time anymore. I try to sleep, but I cannot. I simply turn

"He was a virgin. Twenty. All his friends had a girlfriend. They had done it. He was the only virgin of the group, the laughing stock between all. ' What kind of a man are you? Real men do not remain virgins for long. So what if you don't have a girlfriend? Men can visit prostitutes too. They are cheap and easy.' His friend suggested. He decided to listen to his friend. He wanted to become a real man. The pressure of having sex was rising on him. His virginity was becoming his biggest disrespect. He went to Sonagachi. He entered the smelly and depressing red light areas. Women and girls ranging from the age of 5 to 50 were standing on roads, their face powdered and cheap lipsticks on their swelled lips, waiting for their 30th customer of the day. ' Aye hero chalta hai kya. Bas 50rs mai.' A girl, barely 13, held his hand. ‘Hey hero, want to come for just for Rs 50?’ He got scared. He moved ahead fast. ' Oye Sir, kya maal mangta tumko. Me

As an Indian girl/woman you'll find many guys telling you that they like you or love you, but most of them doesn't mean a word they say. So amidst all the fake words and promises, these are the signs of recognizing a man who's truly in love with you: He not only knows you, he understands you:  Not just your habits, your likes or dislikes, your mood swings, the man who truly loves you will understand the reasons behind your behavior as well. He's super supportive:  He would be your personal cheerleader and will motivate you to chase your dreams, and will also let you know when you're on the wrong path. He respects your ‘No '- Not just in physical aspects, but in every aspect of life. If you have told him that you're not comfortable in doing something, he will not push you to do something, even if it hurts him deep down. He shares stuff and needs your opinion - Be it his clothes, be it his career, or even something small, he shares what's going on i

Sexuality - As young boys are high on testosterone, they are often driven by their sexual urges which makes them do acts that they either regret in future or ruins their future altogether Say no to ‘Over-Porn '- I won't say that you should never watch porn, because this advice will be impossible to follow by 99% of guys out there. However, you should limit your porn time in a week. Porn is nothing but a fantasy, and there is nothing real. At most, porn makes men believe that normal women can act like porn stars and actual sex is just like the project on the screen. One-night stand or a hooker-  Casual sex, either with a girl one met at a bar or fest or party or with a paid hooker is so much more rampant in India now. But before you make this decision, do think about all the safety measures and precautions for a few minutes. Do not place a few minutes of pleasure above your life and health. Be safe. Relationships just for sex - Never misguide a girl and enter into a relati