Male Mistakes In Love

Case 1

Rahul and Shruti were in a relationship since six months. He wanted to take the relationship to the “next level”. Shruti said no. He started blackmailing her, telling her to prove her love for him by getting physical. Shruti dumped him and moved on.

Mistake one - Never pressurise your partner for having sex.

Case 2

Aryan and Riddhima started dating recently. They were in what I call “Getting to know each other” phase. Now Aryan started texting and calling Riddhima every half an hour, and he wanted to know every single detail of her life. Riddhima blocked him one fine day and Aryan was ghosted.

Mistake two : Never suffocate your partner by excessive love, care and indulgence.

Case 3

Aman and Priya were in a relationship since two years. Everytime Priya cooked something, or did something, Aman compared her with his mother. He also wanted her to change by telling her constantly for every second thing “My mother won't like this habit of yours after our marriage. You need to change this if you want to marry me.” Priya broke up with Aman and shifted to a new city and began a new life and got married else where.

Mistake three - Don't compare your partner with your parent. Neither your girlfriend can be your mother, nor your boyfriend can be your father.

Case 4

Ankur and Riya were in their honeymoon period. Ankur constantly stopped Riya from meeting her other friends, especially other guy friends, but at the same time, had ten female friends with whom he hung around often. Riya left Ankur and is now single and free.

Mistake four - Don't over control your partner, and never be a hypocrite.

Case 5

Farhan and Zufi were in a relationship. Farhan spoke lowly of other women, about their bodies, about their character, and used to demean them. He also used to tell Zufi that she “needs” to do whatever he tells her because he's a “man”. Zufi is now seeing Firoz.

Mistake five - Don't disrespect any gender in front of your partner, especially their own.

Case 6

John and Maria were in a long distance relationship. Maria mistreated John, disrespected him, made him cry, made him wait for hours when he travelled to meet her, and laughed at his pains. John still loved her and ran behind her. Maria left him one day for another guy.

Mistake six - Never give up on your self respect.

Case 7

Chetan likes Akriti. He arranges for her number and send her texts like :

“Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii”

“Hhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii”

“Hw r u”

“Happy Monday”

“Plz rply”

Akriti gets scared and blocks Chetan.

Chetan is now on Quora, adding a question “Why did she block me?”

Mistake seven - Learn communication skills.

Case 8

Amrit and Pihu are on a date in a five star open rooftop restaurant. Amrit is rich and classy with an athletic body with a degree from abroad. But when he orders food, the way he treats the waiter, tells everything about him to Pihu. Amrit will never hear from Pihu again.

Mistake eight - Learn good mannerism.

Case 9

Ayush and Pallavi are together since five years. Ayush has this bad habit of running behind other girls and flirting with them, sometimes even in front of pallavi. He hides stuff from her, and sometimes even goes on dates with other girls. Pallavi finds out the truth and leaves him.

Mistake nine - Never cheat your partner.

If you notice, all the mistakes that I wrote, I wrote the word “partner”.

These mistakes are done by both genders.

So people from all genders kindly avoid these mistakes.