How To Win Your Ex Back

How To Win Your Ex Back

In the last article, we discussed how to move on from a breakup using ten ways. But what if the person you broke up with was really the right one for you? What if the relationship was ruined because of petty mistakes or negligence or immaturity? Is a good relationship worth throwing away just because it met a rough patch?
I don't think so.
Until and unless you or your ex has a very bad experience in the relationship or it was an abusive relationship, I don't see a problem why a person cannot try to win their ex back if they really want that person back.

So in this article, we will discuss five ways we can rekindle our love and relationship with that ex-girlfriend/boyfriend who just slipped away, hover before proceeding to the rules, I will urge you to really think with a calm and a cool mind do you really want your ex back? Was the relationship worth giving a chance again? If yes, read on:

• No Contact Rule: In the world of dating, relationships, and breakups, the 'No Contact Rule' is one of the most powerful tools available to fix the issues between two people. The No Contact Rule not only gives space to both the people, but it also gives time to reflect back at what happened and to miss each other. If you really want to get back with your ex, it is very important that you terminate every kind of communication for at least a period of 30 days after the breakup. Your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend will definitely miss you in this period. 
  
  
  
  
  
• Retrospect: Let's say, for example, the breakup took place because you were too insecure, possessive, clingy, or had any similar kind of a problem, take a deep breath and a step back before approaching your ex again. What would be the use of going through all the efforts if you already know the result? What will be the use of winning your ex back if at the end of the day you both will make same mistakes and will end up again with another breakup? In the time you take apart, work upon the habits that resulted in fights, and created problems between your ex.   
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
• Evolve: How you utilize the time after a breakup and before contacting your ex again matters a lot whether or not you'll get back with your ex. Did you learn something new in the time apart like studying zodiac signs or started going to dance classes or were you just crying and stalking them on social media for three months straight? Now learning something new like cooking or painting or writing a blog will make you look very mature and evolved to your ex, so much so they'll feel attracted to these new traits, but on the other hand if you'll behave needy and clingy and waste your time after the breakup, they might even thank themselves for the breakup. Don't give them that chance. Make them regret their decision and make them want you again. 
  
  
  
  
  
•  Pamper Yourself And Let Them See That: Get a new haircut, join a gym, buy new dresses and shoes, go on a trip. Do stuff, fun stuff. Call your friends and hit the dance floor of the famous club. Have fun, real fun. However, once in a while, do not forget to update these stories on your social media where your ex can see the pictures. No, we don't want to make them jealous by trying too hard, we are just having natural fun and living our regular life and sharing the moments with our friends. When your ex will see these pictures, they will feel that you're living your life and moving on, how lively you're as a human, and how your new look suits you. They'll be intrigued to know whats more is going in your life, and curiosity makes people contact you. 
  
  
  
  
• Analyze whether you actually want them back: The above rules will most probably win you a date with your ex. However, before going on this date you must really analyze and ask yourself whether you really want to be with them or not. "I love him/her but he/she cheated on me, he/she wronged me", I get many questions where people ask me if they should get back together with their ex or not, but this is a very private matter and no one can tell you what choice would be the best for your life. You must ask yourself can you forgive, forget, change yourself, and sacrifice enough to commit to this person in the future as well? Does he/she really belong in your life? And if they do, only then give that relationship another chance, else it will again you another heartbreak very soon, which none of us would want.