Learn To Create Opportunities...!!
I really don't think that anyone of us know someone who hasn't missed any opportunity in his/her lifetime.At-least I don't.But everyone of us definitely know a lot of people who cry over lost opportunities.Everyone of us do that,even I do that.It's a human behavior.But you know what,opportunities,once gone,never come back.At-least not in the same way.And accept it or not,it's true.Then,what should we do about lost opportunities,apart crying ?. The answer is simple.Forget them.Yes.Let them go.They are not coming back.Your whining about them won't help.And the next best step to take is,to create new opportunities for yourself.One of the most difficult reality of life is the truth that it isn't going to be fair.And because life is not going to be fair,its not going to give you too many opportunities.It's going to give you numbered,and even from that few ones,you are going to miss some.So,to make all of it a fair deal,there is one thing we all badly need to learn.It's about learning to create opportunities.And once you have learnt it,believe me,you will never feel bad,sad,tensed or frustrated about the lost ones.
But the question is-how do you learn it..? Who is going to teach it to you..?. There,the answer is simple,again.It's you,yourself.It's your life.It's your attitude and outlook towards various aspects.No-one else could teach you that.So,you are on your own there.If you want to reach your destination,then it's you only who has to figure out the road too.And if you don't get one,you will have to make yourself strong enough to create one.That's how things work.If you don't get a promotion,you could do three things,keep on working at the same place,switch to somewhere else.......or use your experience and connections for your own start up.It's not about the missed opportunity you should think about,rather you should concentrate more on how you could you create one.It doesn't necessarily need to be at that time only,but for every missed opportunity,promise yourself you are going to create one.And when you will learn that,I can assure you,you are not going to panic for the one you missed.After sometime,you'll be so calm about it,that for one you missed,you'll create two.
But,that doesn't mean,that you will deliberately miss the ones you could and should easily and tightly grab on.NEVER DO THAT.Because,some of the opportunities are once in a lifetime,and you cannot afford to lose them.Respect the chances you get,and the ones who offer them to you.And if you already know how to do it,please make sure that you help others too about this art.Always remember,if learning how to create opportunities is important,then,learning how to not let go off some of the big ones is more important. :)
But the question is-how do you learn it..? Who is going to teach it to you..?. There,the answer is simple,again.It's you,yourself.It's your life.It's your attitude and outlook towards various aspects.No-one else could teach you that.So,you are on your own there.If you want to reach your destination,then it's you only who has to figure out the road too.And if you don't get one,you will have to make yourself strong enough to create one.That's how things work.If you don't get a promotion,you could do three things,keep on working at the same place,switch to somewhere else.......or use your experience and connections for your own start up.It's not about the missed opportunity you should think about,rather you should concentrate more on how you could you create one.It doesn't necessarily need to be at that time only,but for every missed opportunity,promise yourself you are going to create one.And when you will learn that,I can assure you,you are not going to panic for the one you missed.After sometime,you'll be so calm about it,that for one you missed,you'll create two.
But,that doesn't mean,that you will deliberately miss the ones you could and should easily and tightly grab on.NEVER DO THAT.Because,some of the opportunities are once in a lifetime,and you cannot afford to lose them.Respect the chances you get,and the ones who offer them to you.And if you already know how to do it,please make sure that you help others too about this art.Always remember,if learning how to create opportunities is important,then,learning how to not let go off some of the big ones is more important. :)
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