Happiness.....The Oldest Pal...!!
Depressed.?sad.?Unhappy..?Frustrated..?Irritated..?Just living.....not alive...? WHY..? What are the reasons of such feelings.Problems,various kind's of..? Probably.But dear people,let me ask you very simple question,will your being miserable and gloomy will solve your problems.?If yes,go on and continue being like that.But I think we all know that,it won't make things any better.
So let me try to help you a little........Negative emotions are because of negative thinking,negative thinking arise because of negative circumstances in life,and negative circumstances are because of problems we all face.So what is it......OFFICE ISSUES-solve them,change your job,start your own work.FAMILY ISSUES-talk to them,tell your problems,ask their's,go on a holiday,give time to each other.LOVE ISSUES-love that person..? accept.bad habits..? try to change that patiently.converse.listen.care.say you love them.A candle light dinner,a soft romantic slow dance,flowers,remembering dates.Don't love that person......tell them politely,and move on.Could take a while,but they WILL understand.they want your love....not your mercy...if you can't give that...let them go.STUDY ISSUES-low grades.failures,peer pressure,douche teachers's..?what...study hard,try again,don't give a damn,they are everywhere.Don't waste this golden time because of such things.Real life problems are ten times harder.HEALTH ISSUES-consult a good doctor,be strong mentally,read good books about how people have recovered from dangerous diseases,exercise,meditation.Drink more water and less beer.FAILURES-over and over again...guys,the best success stories are the best failure stories too.Never -ever give up.You may get late,but if you gave up,you will never reach your goal,and that would be the real failure.and everyone fails,in something or other,so chill.
BREAK-UP ISSUES-he/she broke up with you..? Your fault..?Yes..? Apologize..!! NOW..!! not your fault...? wait for him/her to say sorry.If the thing is real,everything is going to be back on tracks.If not,move on,what's the point to be in a relationship where there is no love,trust.MARRIAGE ISSUES-talk to your spouse,the spark is still there,believe me....all you need is...take a break,from work,kids,friends,world....just you two...remember your good memories...tell them your problems,ask their's,trust them.
I am not saying that my advises will solve all your problems.but at-least give it a try.Things will work out,surely,but only when you will work in making that right.Your running away from them,just multiplies them like viruses,kill them.DON'T LET ANYTHING KILL YOUR HAPPINESS.you are here to live,be happy,enjoy,feel,help,laugh,smile,love.Happiness will not make your life a problem free life.problems are everywhere,in everyone's life,rich-poor,etc........but happiness just ensures that you face them more confidently and normally.Be less melodramatic about your problems,try to pick out the possitivity in the negativity............AND JUST BE HAPPY......BECAUSE,IT's THE OLDEST PAL...!! :)
So let me try to help you a little........Negative emotions are because of negative thinking,negative thinking arise because of negative circumstances in life,and negative circumstances are because of problems we all face.So what is it......OFFICE ISSUES-solve them,change your job,start your own work.FAMILY ISSUES-talk to them,tell your problems,ask their's,go on a holiday,give time to each other.LOVE ISSUES-love that person..? accept.bad habits..? try to change that patiently.converse.listen.care.say you love them.A candle light dinner,a soft romantic slow dance,flowers,remembering dates.Don't love that person......tell them politely,and move on.Could take a while,but they WILL understand.they want your love....not your mercy...if you can't give that...let them go.STUDY ISSUES-low grades.failures,peer pressure,douche teachers's..?what...study hard,try again,don't give a damn,they are everywhere.Don't waste this golden time because of such things.Real life problems are ten times harder.HEALTH ISSUES-consult a good doctor,be strong mentally,read good books about how people have recovered from dangerous diseases,exercise,meditation.Drink more water and less beer.FAILURES-over and over again...guys,the best success stories are the best failure stories too.Never -ever give up.You may get late,but if you gave up,you will never reach your goal,and that would be the real failure.and everyone fails,in something or other,so chill.
BREAK-UP ISSUES-he/she broke up with you..? Your fault..?Yes..? Apologize..!! NOW..!! not your fault...? wait for him/her to say sorry.If the thing is real,everything is going to be back on tracks.If not,move on,what's the point to be in a relationship where there is no love,trust.MARRIAGE ISSUES-talk to your spouse,the spark is still there,believe me....all you need is...take a break,from work,kids,friends,world....just you two...remember your good memories...tell them your problems,ask their's,trust them.
I am not saying that my advises will solve all your problems.but at-least give it a try.Things will work out,surely,but only when you will work in making that right.Your running away from them,just multiplies them like viruses,kill them.DON'T LET ANYTHING KILL YOUR HAPPINESS.you are here to live,be happy,enjoy,feel,help,laugh,smile,love.Happiness will not make your life a problem free life.problems are everywhere,in everyone's life,rich-poor,etc........but happiness just ensures that you face them more confidently and normally.Be less melodramatic about your problems,try to pick out the possitivity in the negativity............AND JUST BE HAPPY......BECAUSE,IT's THE OLDEST PAL...!! :)
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