Vidushi Gupta : The SoulHome

Everyday we meet so many people,that we can't even remember all of them.They are all so different,yet same to each other in some ways.Have you ever noticed one thing,about them or for that matter even yourself,whenever we talk to each other or ourselves,90% of the time the subject matter is about our various types of problems.Problems about health,wealth,life,love,family,career,office,and god knows what not...!Whenever i meet someone like that....I don't literally see that person,what I really see is.....the most unfortunate person of the entire universe,who is a porter, and somehow god has burdened him/her with the entire luggage of worries and problems and depression of the entire human kind......and that's why everyone else in the world appears extremely happy and carefree to such person,because he/she enviously thinks that they are carrying other's portion of problems too...!! What a waste...!! Dear people,no matter where you go........from the poorest to the riche...

Alright guys.......today as i am in a poetic mood,i thought i would share a little poem,that i had written almost three years back.And it's my first one too....hope you like it.... There is someone Who is close to me, Someone so special,so close to my soul Who makes me complete,a whole. There is someone To whom my heart belong, A person,so needed,so wanted Someone for whom I always long. There is someone From whom distance can't keep me apart, A person,who reads my eyes And,the language of my heart. There is someone Who is in my heart,soul,thoughts,in me, Someone whom I love till date Yet I can't have that person, And,That,is my unlucky fate.......... Guys,I really hope you like it.And obviously if you want to use it for someone ......go ahead...!! :)  

Remember the first day of your school.? Or your first bicycle,video game,or the time you when you made a fake house using chairs,bed-sheet,pillows,etc.?Remember your first crush,your first love,your first proposal,your first rejection,your first relationship,your first break-up.? Remember your last day at school,your prom night/farewell party.?Your first kiss,your first dance with  that special someone.?Remember that first day at college,the time spend there,the friends,the teacher's,the bunks,the bad marks,saving pocket money and buying someone a gift,and the countless dates.?Remember your first interview,your first job,your first salary,and obviously how you spent it.? Remember the proposal of marriage made/received.?Remember the day you got married,the day your first child was born.? I believe that you all do......right...?No one forgets these things.It is in these memories that our life is piled up.When we are kids,we just can't wait to grow up,see the world,boss around....

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life;not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens. We all often becomes what we believes ourselves to be.If you keep on saying to yourself that you cannot do a certain thing,it is possible that you may end by really becoming incapable of doing it.On the contrary.....if you have the belief that you can do it,you shall surely acquire the capacity to do it,even if you may not have it at the beginning. Therefore,keep your spirits always up,believe yourself,and always listen to your heart.KNOW YOURSELF AND YOU WILL WIN ALL THE BATTLES....!! :) 

As i am not yet married,so i really couldn't speak or write about it,as i don't understand the pros and cons associated to it very mush.So today I would write about a story,i recently read.It's from "The Old Man And His God"-by Mrs.Sudha Murthy,wife of Narayana Murthy,the founder of infosys. "I had a wonderful meal and was enjoying an after-dinner stroll around the village.It was a full moon light and the quite and serenity were most welcome to my ears:no cell phones,cars honking,aeroplanes roaring overhead.Instead leaves on the trees were rustling gently in the breeze.There was a local lady,Gowramma,who accompanied me.We were talking,when i heard someone singing a folk song.I was struck by the beauty and soulfulness of the song and the voice.I asked Gowramma,whether we could visit the singer,and she promptly agreed. Madha and Yellamma were perhaps the most poorest people in that village.They had to beg for their meals everyday.Yellamma was quite sick that d...

Each and everyone of us have that little part inside us that yearns for being wanted,needed and most importantly,being loved.We all want that someone special,for whom we mean the world.Deep down,everyone wants to experience the feeling we read about in all love stories,or watch in those "ULTRA-ROMANTIC" movies. A lot of people on earth,falls in love with a lot of people they meet on earth.But the rarest of the rare ones,falls in love with someone,and that too for forever.Some of the lucky ones get married,some less lucky ones come in a relationship,and spend at-least some years of their life with each other.But sometimes,there are certain people,whose love remains unsaid,unheard.....but not totally unnoticed and in-reciprocated.And this type of the love is the most truest and purest of all.You know why..? Because such lovers always love that person without any expectation.That person becomes a certain part of their identity.I think,such kind of is the most powerful of all,t...

Depressed.?sad.?Unhappy..?Frustrated..?Irritated..?Just living.....not alive...? WHY..? What are the reasons of such feelings.Problems,various kind's of..? Probably.But dear people,let me ask you very simple question,will your being miserable and gloomy will solve your problems.?If yes,go on and continue being like that.But I think we all know that,it won't make things  any better. So let me try to help you a little........Negative emotions are because of negative thinking,negative thinking arise because of negative circumstances in life,and negative circumstances are because of  problems we all face.So what is it......OFFICE ISSUES-solve them,change your job,start your own work.FAMILY ISSUES-talk to them,tell your problems,ask their's,go on a holiday,give time to each other.LOVE ISSUES-love that person..? accept.bad habits..? try to change that patiently.converse.listen.care.say you love them.A candle light dinner,a soft romantic slow dance,flowers,remembering dates.Don...

You have your own different perception for surroundings,life,issues,future,etc,etc,etc.Some people will think that you think too much,some people will think that you are too philosophical and some people,will think you are completely mad.But then,what's the point in living the life similar to everyone else.And in anyway....people will always find something to think about you,good or bad.And that's the only thing that you shouldn't think about.You all are really unique,and you should enjoy the fact that you have different perception,or think too much,or are philosophical,or completely crazy.And that is what makes you different from other's.if someone else's view doesn't match with your's it's ok,it's not a problem.In short.......life is too short to be anyone else....so just love being you....!! :)

Love.........aaahh...the most,most,most beautiful feeling...simply divine.Once you're in it,you just know it...don't you..?? The most foolish thing in this world is to fall in love with someone without any reason.But the smartest thing ,once you are in love,is to respect that fall forever. Love does not have expectations.It is based on respect.It does not feel sorry for anyone,but it does have compassion.When you truly love someone,you do not have any expectations,you just act because you want to.Love is completely responsible.All that we do,everything we think,has a consequence.We always experience the consequence of our actions in some way or the other.Everyone is responsible for their own actions,even if they wish not to be,therefore actions are very,very,very important in love. Loving someone doesn't need a reason.If you can explain why you love someone,it's not called "LOVE",it's called "LIKE".Forget about all the reasons why someone can...

LOVE.LIFE.MYSELF.MONEY.SOUL.HEALTH.HEART.MIND.FAMILY.FRIENDS..The above written things are the most important aspect of anyone's life,all around the world.These are the major lessons we learn through our time.And my personal favorite among them is-ALL.Because in each of them you can't ever predict anything.even a moment is enough to change their shape.You can't leave them,you can't run away from them.All you can do is just to feel them.You just have to live them.You have to and should enjoy their beauty.Sometime's you just don't have to have control over them.It's useless.You just have to set them free.You have to accept the form and shape they take.But,if you don't like the shape,then change it.But first accept,and then change.You can't find a solution for a problem,unless you accept that there is a problem. You have to be in them,every moment.You can't afford to give up.It's all too precious to give up.They are going to be hard,difficult,s...

Someone asked me "What do you think about love..??".I smiled and closed my eyes for a moment.YOU.I saw you.I saw the time we first met and talked.I saw the times when i was with you.I saw the times when you just looked into my eyes,so deeply.I remembered the times when you sang my name,i saw the times you held my hand.I saw the times you pulled me closer.I saw the times when you tried to convince me.I saw the times when you ignored me and were rude to me.I remembered  the time when you just came and stood by my side.I remembered the thousand times when you and me,we were just looking at each other,eyes to eyes,no need of words.I remembered the times,when silence was so golden with you.I remembered the times, when we just fought and acted like we don't care for each other.I remembered the times......when you made me felt so safe,special and complete...in an all different way....way that couldn't be described.I remembered.......... Someone shook me,and I,I came back ...

We all have some fear's. Fear's to commit the acts of past which have hurt our soul to the most,but then,at certain moments of our life,we have to overcome our fears,go against them,and live our life,the way we want to.Nothing is permanent in this life,not even sadness.One day.everything is meant to fall in place.One day,everything is going to be perfect like never before. You don't have to wait for the right time,but take the time and make it right,But sometimes,you really....really have to wait for the right time......and if you wait patiently......it will arrive.Never lose hope,keep loving,keep living,keep believing,keep being happy...But most importantly,keep moving,because a stagnant water never touches the ocean...!! :)

Hey...Sometimes, you feel so much,that you feel nothing at all.Yeah,that's right.Sometimes,you create problems for yourself,by over thinking ,and sometimes,by not thinking at all.In both the circumstances,take my word,you feel lost.Lost like hell.When an object is filled too much,the substance either flows out or falls out.On the other hand ,if it is kept empty,at any level,vacuum and emptiness fills it.Both the situations are wasteful.Then what should be done? I think......BALANCE is the answer.Try to balance things,life,relationships,career etc,etc,etc.I am not saying that you don't know it,we all do,but we all just forget,we just forget to give it a brand new try...!! Everyone has problems,everyone,at one point of time feel lost.Even i do.But that doesn't mean that you'll give up everything,and will sit down,feeling numb,lost..? NO!!Absolutely NO!! A BIG NO!! Get up,fight.Fight against life,depression,people,problems,challenges,negativity......and yourself.Yes,you...

Alright.For all those who are wondering who am i........let me tell you i am one of you all.A simple,ordinary Indian citizen.I don't really want to tell you what i do......because i think if i did that.....a part of readers would surely be affected,because of professional inclination to my words...and i want my words to reach out to everyone equally,no matter what they do for a living.But i promise..... i will disclose it at the right time....but i can tell you that i am a student,and an aspiring writer....and that's it... i am not telling any further.. :P When someone ask me who am i....i just simply look into the eyes of the questioner,smile and answer " I am the pain of your heart.I am the word of your soul.I am the feeling that you're going to feel once in your lifetime.In short, i am your unspoken truth" Anyways, i am not a professional blogger,and this is my first blog.but there has to be a first time,if you want to do something.....hain naa...??. Peopl...