Be Their Underlying Power!!

Sometimes, the people you love, love you back.And sometimes, the people you love, love you back, but they love some other things too.Things, which could possibly be their dreams, their aims, their passions. And , sometimes to achieve them, they probably have to choose between you and their dreams.If they choose you, you become happy.To some extent, even they do.But after a while, they miss their goal.And they miss it so terribly, that they could even start blaming you as the reason for their non-compliance with their wants.And then things start falling apart.No one wants to be with someone they've tagged as their symbol of failure.

On the other facet of the coin, if they instantly choose what they want to achieve over you, sadness is an immediate result. You both love each other, and that's true. Love for a passion cannot destroy love for someone.So even in this scenario, things are falling apart, because  success that is achieved by paying your relationship as a price is probably not even worth having.

In the recent times, we've all become career-oriented. We all have somethings to accomplish.We all want to reach somewhere and that's fine.But we're humans too.We have emotions too.Sometimes, when it comes to being with someone who is busy chasing their dreams, we become all numb to those emotions and label their struggle as "rat-race".I agree that too much of that struggle or too much obsessing over one's work is fatal, to all aspects of  life, but, again as another facet of the situation, everyone has to work hard to acheive something that is worth some value.And upto a limit it's not wrong at all.So never disrespect their efforts by calling them futile.

If you love someone like that,  who have something to achieve, something they're passionately in love with, something that they have been putting constant efforts into, and something that has been keeping them up at nights for years, then please don't make them choose.They love you, and they love their dream.And more often than not, their dream is going to take a lot of their time, which was originally yours.Accept that.Be proud of them,that they want to do something in life.Be with them, encourage them when they fall.Calm them down when they work too hard, scold them when they don't. Let them be, give them some time when they need it.Let them go, if they want it, because if your love is true, with their success, they're very soon going to comeback to you to celebrate it.Be their anchor, be their harbour, but don't stop them from measuring the depths of the ocean.Encourage them to constantly sail towards the horizon.Be their lighthouse.Be their underlying power.Because that's something love is all about.And when they've finally achieved what they wanted to, they'll love, respect and cherish you for the rest of their ife.