Can We Fall Out Of Love...?
It's been 5 years.5 years of promises,dreams,notes,emotions,feelings,passion,and,love.But one day,he stand in front of her,to tell her that he don't love her anymore.That his 5 years old love has changed within a month.That she doesn't mean to him what she used to,anymore.She is in tears,asking him if he is joking.Pleading him to tell the reason,to tell her what is wrong.But he is in more tears than her.He struggles to finally tell her that even he doesn't know what the reason is.That he thinks that the flame between them has extinguished.He just feels that they should go their separate ways.That they are not meant for each other and should find happiness without each other.
You all probably think it is a story.Maybe.But,before reaching any conclusion,just look around yourself.Don't you see people falling out of love as much as you see them falling in love ? The heart-breaks,the break-ups.Probably,at-least once,we all have come out of "love" with someone.Haven't we ? We meet someone,start liking them,spend time,fall in love,things doesn't work out and boom,you are officially "not in love anymore".Simple and uncomplicated,isn't it ? but is it all really so simple as it seems ?
We all know the terms crush,like,infatuation,lust,attraction,love,true-love,soul-mate.But the real thing we don't know about them is their true meaning.And,no I'm not talking about the dictionary meaning.I'm talking about their true essence.They are all so different.For example,you could like someone,but that person may-not be your true love.You may love someone,but it isn't necessary that the same person is your soul-mate.These emotions are so much like each other,but are still have such a vast difference.Unless and until you feel each one of them,you won't know about them no matter how many books you read,or movies you watch or music you listen to.Soul-mate,for that matter,constitutes all such emotions.It has like,crush,lust attraction,even true-love etc all in it.But infatuation doesn't include true-love.
But the question "Can we fall out of love ?" still remains unanswered.So lets see into the matter.When we start liking someone,we initially like the way they look,dress,talk,behave,act,or a lot of things like these.Slowly,as we spend time with them,we get to know them,we start knowing how they really are.How they think,what they think,their dreams,their passions,their secrets,their past.We get to know how much sensitive,patient,compassionate,shot-tempered,true,reliable,honest they are.And somewhere down the line we fall in love with them.We fall in love,initially with all the qualities we observe in them,but eventually,the one we love becomes an integral part of ourselves,and we accept their bad side too.When we fall in love,the rare kind of love,we always put the "one" on our top priority,even above ourselves.Their happiness becomes our celebration,their sadness becomes our mourning.Their smile becomes our happiness,their pain becomes our tears.When we fall in love,we know it's love.
If you can literally fall out of love with someone,let me tell you,that you never loved the person in the first place.You could have liked them,could have been infatuated,attracted or even obsessed with them,but you didn't loved them.Love never comes with an expiry date.All the other feelings does.When it's love,it's forever,it's eternal.You were with someone,because you liked the way they looked.That could be one reason for your love,but if that's the base of your love,the ultimate reason behind your love,then it's not love at all.The only reason for love is, love.If you can fall in love with a second person,when you were already in love with someone else,by all means accept the truth that you never loved the first person.How can you fall in someone else,if you really loved
the first one with your heart and soul ? And if you can,then it is because the first person didn't made you feel complete,and that is why,when you eventually met someone who did,you fell in love with them.And if you cannot feel complete with the one you are with,then again,where is love ?
When you really,really love someone,you never give up on them.It's not that you don't feel attracted to others,but then again,to you,they are just that,mere attractions.You hold tightly onto that one person.That person means the world,universe,galaxy,probably even more to you.They are your sunshine,your rain.You cannot imagine your life without them.You would probably be angry and miserable because of them,instead of partying and dancing with someone else.They are your inspiration,energy,your guiding light,your own miracle.You fall in love with them again and again and again,each day,everyday.So dear people,if you can really stop loving someone,know this,you never loved them.NEVER.Because love is not in running away,it's in staying and holding on.
You all probably think it is a story.Maybe.But,before reaching any conclusion,just look around yourself.Don't you see people falling out of love as much as you see them falling in love ? The heart-breaks,the break-ups.Probably,at-least once,we all have come out of "love" with someone.Haven't we ? We meet someone,start liking them,spend time,fall in love,things doesn't work out and boom,you are officially "not in love anymore".Simple and uncomplicated,isn't it ? but is it all really so simple as it seems ?
We all know the terms crush,like,infatuation,lust,attraction,love,true-love,soul-mate.But the real thing we don't know about them is their true meaning.And,no I'm not talking about the dictionary meaning.I'm talking about their true essence.They are all so different.For example,you could like someone,but that person may-not be your true love.You may love someone,but it isn't necessary that the same person is your soul-mate.These emotions are so much like each other,but are still have such a vast difference.Unless and until you feel each one of them,you won't know about them no matter how many books you read,or movies you watch or music you listen to.Soul-mate,for that matter,constitutes all such emotions.It has like,crush,lust attraction,even true-love etc all in it.But infatuation doesn't include true-love.
But the question "Can we fall out of love ?" still remains unanswered.So lets see into the matter.When we start liking someone,we initially like the way they look,dress,talk,behave,act,or a lot of things like these.Slowly,as we spend time with them,we get to know them,we start knowing how they really are.How they think,what they think,their dreams,their passions,their secrets,their past.We get to know how much sensitive,patient,compassionate,shot-tempered,true,reliable,honest they are.And somewhere down the line we fall in love with them.We fall in love,initially with all the qualities we observe in them,but eventually,the one we love becomes an integral part of ourselves,and we accept their bad side too.When we fall in love,the rare kind of love,we always put the "one" on our top priority,even above ourselves.Their happiness becomes our celebration,their sadness becomes our mourning.Their smile becomes our happiness,their pain becomes our tears.When we fall in love,we know it's love.
If you can literally fall out of love with someone,let me tell you,that you never loved the person in the first place.You could have liked them,could have been infatuated,attracted or even obsessed with them,but you didn't loved them.Love never comes with an expiry date.All the other feelings does.When it's love,it's forever,it's eternal.You were with someone,because you liked the way they looked.That could be one reason for your love,but if that's the base of your love,the ultimate reason behind your love,then it's not love at all.The only reason for love is, love.If you can fall in love with a second person,when you were already in love with someone else,by all means accept the truth that you never loved the first person.How can you fall in someone else,if you really loved
the first one with your heart and soul ? And if you can,then it is because the first person didn't made you feel complete,and that is why,when you eventually met someone who did,you fell in love with them.And if you cannot feel complete with the one you are with,then again,where is love ?
When you really,really love someone,you never give up on them.It's not that you don't feel attracted to others,but then again,to you,they are just that,mere attractions.You hold tightly onto that one person.That person means the world,universe,galaxy,probably even more to you.They are your sunshine,your rain.You cannot imagine your life without them.You would probably be angry and miserable because of them,instead of partying and dancing with someone else.They are your inspiration,energy,your guiding light,your own miracle.You fall in love with them again and again and again,each day,everyday.So dear people,if you can really stop loving someone,know this,you never loved them.NEVER.Because love is not in running away,it's in staying and holding on.
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