Love DOES Happen Again..!!

"Something that happens once,will never happen twice.And something that happens twice,will surely happen thrice."A quote that I read somewhere,and liked it to the core, because a part of me believe that sentence.But...the question it not whether I liked/believed it or not.The question is.....does the sentence applies to love ? "CAN LOVE HAPPEN TWICE" a novel by Ravinder Singh deals with the same.Can love really happen twice ? All of us falls in love with someone ,somewhere,at sometime in our life.But unluckily,not all of us succeed in that venture.Then what ? some of us move on,and some of us,don't.Let's just drop down the people who move on for a little while,and talk about the ones who couldn't. Why they can't move on ? Maybe,they are just afraid to love again.Or maybe,they haven't met someone else.Or maybe,just maybe,they are not giving themselves a second chance in love.As much as I can say,no-one fears or hates love.No-one.Some people are just afraid to fall in love with someone else.I know a lot of you are thinking that whether or not I am trying to state that something like "true love" doesn't exist.That all of us should fall in love again and again ? Of-course not.I am someone whose favorite author is Mr.Nicholas Sparks.The man's fictional characters never fall in love again,even after 17,30 years of separation.I am someone "forever yours " kind.True love does exist.What I am trying to say is that a lot of people hold themselves back,and deny to fall in love,with someone,who is clearly head-to-toe in love with them,just because they think they're incapable of loving again.I am trying to ask you to maturely differentiate between "true love","love","infatuation","crush","like" and "lust".The differentiation is very necessary,or else you will waste a lot of your precious time in running behind a train,which was mean't to stop for you.And if it's not your's,it will never stop,and you will never catch it,because it simply not yours. True love cases are rare,say just 1%.But a lot of guys/girls use the term as an excuse to run away from reality.They fight,drink,sleep around,do drugs and all type of nonsensical things they can think of.


But it's simply not right guys.See after the relationship doesn't work,we get into the move away,break-up,divorce phase.And after that we go into the self-destruction phase.We think that doing all of such behavior could win us that person's love once again.We punish ourselves,yes ourselves.If you two aren't meant to be,nothing will work.Now,a lot of you are wanting to say "But,I can't love someone else,I just can't.How can I love someone else other than him/her.We created a lot of memories together.Should I throw them away,look for someone else,and move on.Sorry,I can't.I prefer to be in love with that person only,without really having that person,rather than finding someone new."Well,all of those who want to ask that question,I simply believe you are from that rare 1%,the "true love"case.You all should try to figure out things between you and your special one.You can't afford to move on.Because for you people,love will never again.

See,I am neither in favor or against falling in love again.At the end of the day,it's you who know your story.A lot of you had a life,in which "love happens just once" applies.And you guys are right.And the others will say "love can happen again",and in a way,you guys are right too.It's just a matter of destiny,choice and perspective.But if you're among the ones who are not sure of both the states,or you are not willing to let go of something of past,or ruining the happiness,love,and completeness you deserve,it's probably time to think again.Love does happen again.Just because it didn't worked out once,that doesn't mean it never will.Make a smart,mature and as they say,the right choice.Because your choice is going to define the life you are going to live.And yes,one more,and MOST important thing..........love can happen again,but if it is happening again and again........then I can assure you,it's definitely not love. :)