Vidushi Gupta : The SoulHome

Everyday we meet so many people,that we can't even remember all of them.They are all so different,yet same to each other in some ways.Have you ever noticed one thing,about them or for that matter even yourself,whenever we talk to each other or ourselves,90% of the time the subject matter is about our various types of problems.Problems about health,wealth,life,love,family,career,office,and god knows what not...!Whenever i meet someone like that....I don't literally see that person,what I really see is.....the most unfortunate person of the entire universe,who is a porter, and somehow god has burdened him/her with the entire luggage of worries and problems and depression of the entire human kind......and that's why everyone else in the world appears extremely happy and carefree to such person,because he/she enviously thinks that they are carrying other's portion of problems too...!! What a waste...!! Dear people,no matter where you go........from the poorest to the riche...

Alright guys.......today as i am in a poetic mood,i thought i would share a little poem,that i had written almost three years back.And it's my first one too....hope you like it.... There is someone Who is close to me, Someone so special,so close to my soul Who makes me complete,a whole. There is someone To whom my heart belong, A person,so needed,so wanted Someone for whom I always long. There is someone From whom distance can't keep me apart, A person,who reads my eyes And,the language of my heart. There is someone Who is in my heart,soul,thoughts,in me, Someone whom I love till date Yet I can't have that person, And,That,is my unlucky fate.......... Guys,I really hope you like it.And obviously if you want to use it for someone ......go ahead...!! :)  

Remember the first day of your school.? Or your first bicycle,video game,or the time you when you made a fake house using chairs,bed-sheet,pillows,etc.?Remember your first crush,your first love,your first proposal,your first rejection,your first relationship,your first break-up.? Remember your last day at school,your prom night/farewell party.?Your first kiss,your first dance with  that special someone.?Remember that first day at college,the time spend there,the friends,the teacher's,the bunks,the bad marks,saving pocket money and buying someone a gift,and the countless dates.?Remember your first interview,your first job,your first salary,and obviously how you spent it.? Remember the proposal of marriage made/received.?Remember the day you got married,the day your first child was born.? I believe that you all do......right...?No one forgets these things.It is in these memories that our life is piled up.When we are kids,we just can't wait to grow up,see the world,boss around....

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life;not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens. We all often becomes what we believes ourselves to be.If you keep on saying to yourself that you cannot do a certain thing,it is possible that you may end by really becoming incapable of doing it.On the contrary.....if you have the belief that you can do it,you shall surely acquire the capacity to do it,even if you may not have it at the beginning. Therefore,keep your spirits always up,believe yourself,and always listen to your heart.KNOW YOURSELF AND YOU WILL WIN ALL THE BATTLES....!! :) 

As i am not yet married,so i really couldn't speak or write about it,as i don't understand the pros and cons associated to it very mush.So today I would write about a story,i recently read.It's from "The Old Man And His God"-by Mrs.Sudha Murthy,wife of Narayana Murthy,the founder of infosys. "I had a wonderful meal and was enjoying an after-dinner stroll around the village.It was a full moon light and the quite and serenity were most welcome to my ears:no cell phones,cars honking,aeroplanes roaring overhead.Instead leaves on the trees were rustling gently in the breeze.There was a local lady,Gowramma,who accompanied me.We were talking,when i heard someone singing a folk song.I was struck by the beauty and soulfulness of the song and the voice.I asked Gowramma,whether we could visit the singer,and she promptly agreed. Madha and Yellamma were perhaps the most poorest people in that village.They had to beg for their meals everyday.Yellamma was quite sick that d...

Each and everyone of us have that little part inside us that yearns for being wanted,needed and most importantly,being loved.We all want that someone special,for whom we mean the world.Deep down,everyone wants to experience the feeling we read about in all love stories,or watch in those "ULTRA-ROMANTIC" movies. A lot of people on earth,falls in love with a lot of people they meet on earth.But the rarest of the rare ones,falls in love with someone,and that too for forever.Some of the lucky ones get married,some less lucky ones come in a relationship,and spend at-least some years of their life with each other.But sometimes,there are certain people,whose love remains unsaid,unheard.....but not totally unnoticed and in-reciprocated.And this type of the love is the most truest and purest of all.You know why..? Because such lovers always love that person without any expectation.That person becomes a certain part of their identity.I think,such kind of is the most powerful of all,t...

Depressed.?sad.?Unhappy..?Frustrated..?Irritated..?Just living.....not alive...? WHY..? What are the reasons of such feelings.Problems,various kind's of..? Probably.But dear people,let me ask you very simple question,will your being miserable and gloomy will solve your problems.?If yes,go on and continue being like that.But I think we all know that,it won't make things  any better. So let me try to help you a little........Negative emotions are because of negative thinking,negative thinking arise because of negative circumstances in life,and negative circumstances are because of  problems we all face.So what is it......OFFICE ISSUES-solve them,change your job,start your own work.FAMILY ISSUES-talk to them,tell your problems,ask their's,go on a holiday,give time to each other.LOVE ISSUES-love that person..? accept.bad habits..? try to change that patiently.converse.listen.care.say you love them.A candle light dinner,a soft romantic slow dance,flowers,remembering dates.Don...